All in all, it was a lot of fun and we are hoping to make this a Kim Family Tradition.
Saturday, February 8, 2014
The Circus
Last winter we went up to spend Christmas with Jimmy's family in Maryland and decided to make a trip up to NYC while we were up there. We went to the Big Apple Circus and it was so much fun to see EV just mesmorized. Unfortunately, she didn't seem to remember much from the trip so when we found out that the Big Apple Circus would be in Atlanta, we bought tickets immediately. I am so glad we went! First off, it was last Friday after all the snow frenzy so it was just nice to get out of the house. Second, we had the best seats--second section, first row. Not only were we able to see everything but we were part of the show! Jimmy got to throw the clowns hat onto his head and EV got a balloon heart made for her. That's what I love about this circus, it's intimate and they engage their audience. We could literally reach out our hands and touch the horses and dogs if we wanted. I love how we were all laughing one moment and on the edge of our seats the next. And most of all I loved glimpsing over at EV and seeing her eyes wide with wonder and curiosity.
All in all, it was a lot of fun and we are hoping to make this a Kim Family Tradition.
All in all, it was a lot of fun and we are hoping to make this a Kim Family Tradition.
Friday, January 31, 2014
Daddy's Home!
What a crazy week! Not only was daddy out of town which makes the week already stressful but we were trapped at home because of 2 inches of snow. I'm not going to talk about how Atlanta literally shut down this week but I am very thankful that we were safe at home and all family members were accounted for. Now don't get me wrong, I love spending time with EV but there is only so much time you can spend playing the same games, having the same conversations, reading the same books, eating the same foods and watching the same shows. It was only three days but by Thursday afternoon, one thing was clear, EV was tired of me and I was tired of EV. As my mom said in her broken English, "The hulk has come out." She didn't want to do anything, she was cranky, she was easily irritable, she just wasn't very pleasant to be around...and neither was I.
Then late Thursday afternoon daddy came home and it literally felt like EV became a whole different person. She was giddy with excitment, she kept flapping her arms because she was so happy, she started singing, she would blow me kisses and winks, she was all smiles from ear to ear. Often times when she responds this way, I have a hard time with it because it feels like she prefers daddy over me, but this time I was right there with her giddy with excitment, talking jimmy's ear off, smiling from ear to ear. The funny thing is, it wasn't just our interactions with daddy but our interactions with each other that changed. We wanted to spend time with each other again and all crankiness went away.
So last night, while EV made pizza with daddy, we were all talking, laughing, and enjoying each other's company. I am sure jimmy was exhasted from his trip but he never once complained or showed his tiredness. He engaged us and spent time with us knowing how much we needed him, how much we missed him, and how much we loved him.
Then late Thursday afternoon daddy came home and it literally felt like EV became a whole different person. She was giddy with excitment, she kept flapping her arms because she was so happy, she started singing, she would blow me kisses and winks, she was all smiles from ear to ear. Often times when she responds this way, I have a hard time with it because it feels like she prefers daddy over me, but this time I was right there with her giddy with excitment, talking jimmy's ear off, smiling from ear to ear. The funny thing is, it wasn't just our interactions with daddy but our interactions with each other that changed. We wanted to spend time with each other again and all crankiness went away.
So last night, while EV made pizza with daddy, we were all talking, laughing, and enjoying each other's company. I am sure jimmy was exhasted from his trip but he never once complained or showed his tiredness. He engaged us and spent time with us knowing how much we needed him, how much we missed him, and how much we loved him.
Friday, January 17, 2014
Hooked on Phonics
EV has loved to read since before she could talk. She always wanted us to read the same book over and over and over and over and over and over again. When she learned to talk, she would take a book and make up stories and pretend to read to her stuffed animals. Now she just memorizes the books we read to her, some of them word for word, and will "read" us back the stories exactly how she memorized it. So, obviously, it seems the natural next step would be to actually learn how to read.
At first, I just jumped right into it. I would say, "EV, what word is this?" EV would look at what letter it starts with, find a picture on the page that starts with that letter, and make up a word. Then I would say, "No, EV, sound it out." Then she would proceed to do the same thing. What was I doing wrong? Why couldn't she read? So then I thought maybe we can start with spelling. I would ask her, "EV how do you spell CAT?" EV would then say, "I don't know, mommy, I don't want to play this game!" I would respond, "EV, it's so simple just sound it out." EV would then start, "C--EKJPT" Then I would say, "You're not taking this seriously!"
After feeling frustrated, I had a take a step back and realize that first of all she didn't understand what I meant by "sound it out." Second, I haven't taught her anything, I just expected her to start reading. Last, I wasn't making it fun. I was taking all the fun out of her excitment for books and pretend reading. So, I started reading some articles and I re-approached the situation.
I first asked her if she wanted to learn to read. When she responded yes, we took out a piece of paper and pen and I started with words that started with A-T. For the first week we worked on CAT, FAT, HAT, SAT, MAT, PAT. Then I found an app that reinforced exactly the same thing starting with words that ended in "AT." I rewarded her with kiddy tattoos. Then the next week we were reading words that ended in A-N and worked on words like TAN, VAN, RAN, PAN, CAN. And she picked it up even faster. Now when I say, "sound it out." You hear her say, "Pppppppp--ahhhhhhh-nnnnnnnn...PAN!!!" When I come home from work, she runs to me with her notebook and pen and asks if we can learn more words. What a world of a difference.
I honestly don't care if she's reading or not. I know she will learn how to read eventually, but I also don't like it when she tells us she's bored and doesn't feel challenged. It was also obvious that she was ready to read. So, this was the natural next step in her learning. It was the sweetest thing when she said to me, "Mommy, I love learning how to read, even though its a little hard sometimes!" So, never stop challenging your kid but always remember to make it fun!
At first, I just jumped right into it. I would say, "EV, what word is this?" EV would look at what letter it starts with, find a picture on the page that starts with that letter, and make up a word. Then I would say, "No, EV, sound it out." Then she would proceed to do the same thing. What was I doing wrong? Why couldn't she read? So then I thought maybe we can start with spelling. I would ask her, "EV how do you spell CAT?" EV would then say, "I don't know, mommy, I don't want to play this game!" I would respond, "EV, it's so simple just sound it out." EV would then start, "C--EKJPT" Then I would say, "You're not taking this seriously!"
After feeling frustrated, I had a take a step back and realize that first of all she didn't understand what I meant by "sound it out." Second, I haven't taught her anything, I just expected her to start reading. Last, I wasn't making it fun. I was taking all the fun out of her excitment for books and pretend reading. So, I started reading some articles and I re-approached the situation.
I first asked her if she wanted to learn to read. When she responded yes, we took out a piece of paper and pen and I started with words that started with A-T. For the first week we worked on CAT, FAT, HAT, SAT, MAT, PAT. Then I found an app that reinforced exactly the same thing starting with words that ended in "AT." I rewarded her with kiddy tattoos. Then the next week we were reading words that ended in A-N and worked on words like TAN, VAN, RAN, PAN, CAN. And she picked it up even faster. Now when I say, "sound it out." You hear her say, "Pppppppp--ahhhhhhh-nnnnnnnn...PAN!!!" When I come home from work, she runs to me with her notebook and pen and asks if we can learn more words. What a world of a difference.
I honestly don't care if she's reading or not. I know she will learn how to read eventually, but I also don't like it when she tells us she's bored and doesn't feel challenged. It was also obvious that she was ready to read. So, this was the natural next step in her learning. It was the sweetest thing when she said to me, "Mommy, I love learning how to read, even though its a little hard sometimes!" So, never stop challenging your kid but always remember to make it fun!
Tuesday, January 7, 2014
Back to Reality
So, the last two months have been very crazy for me--not the typical busy with too many projects and living life crazy, but the stuck in bed, not myself, helpless type of crazy. But with the start of a new year are new goals and a renewed spirit. After having two weeks off from work and having done literally NOTHING in those two weeks, I am ready to tackle this pregnancy, my family, my work, my life in a whole new light. Two lessons I've learned: Take my time and Listen to your body.
So, I started back at work last week and even made it into the office (which requires getting dressed, putting on making, doing my hair, and walking). I signed EV up for ballet. I hosted small group in my house. These may seem like easy everyday tasks but it really required a lot of energy and effort.
My goals for the next few months:
-Start planning for EV's birthday party
-Journal more
-Clean out Emmett's room and paint it
-Spend more time with EV
-Go on a date with Jimmy
Getting out of the house definitely helps with getting me more motivated. I'm hoping that once the nausea subsides, I'll really have the energy to spend time with my loved ones and do more activities.
This little girl has been stealing my heart.
My strong-willed child has been showing herself to be loving and compassionate and it brings me to tears. When my days are bad, EV will come and tell me, "I know it's hard," "I love you, mommy," "get some rest and it'll be better in the morning." She'll hug me and kiss me and just sit next to me while holding my hand. And when she tells me that instead of making her sad, it makes her happy to be able to let me rest, it makes me want to hurry up and get better so that I can be there for her and hold her and tell her that everything is okay.
So yup, it's back to reality--2014 here we come ready or not!
So, I started back at work last week and even made it into the office (which requires getting dressed, putting on making, doing my hair, and walking). I signed EV up for ballet. I hosted small group in my house. These may seem like easy everyday tasks but it really required a lot of energy and effort.
My goals for the next few months:
-Start planning for EV's birthday party
-Journal more
-Clean out Emmett's room and paint it
-Spend more time with EV
-Go on a date with Jimmy
Getting out of the house definitely helps with getting me more motivated. I'm hoping that once the nausea subsides, I'll really have the energy to spend time with my loved ones and do more activities.
This little girl has been stealing my heart.
My strong-willed child has been showing herself to be loving and compassionate and it brings me to tears. When my days are bad, EV will come and tell me, "I know it's hard," "I love you, mommy," "get some rest and it'll be better in the morning." She'll hug me and kiss me and just sit next to me while holding my hand. And when she tells me that instead of making her sad, it makes her happy to be able to let me rest, it makes me want to hurry up and get better so that I can be there for her and hold her and tell her that everything is okay.
So yup, it's back to reality--2014 here we come ready or not!
Thursday, December 19, 2013
Thankful
Three weeks ago on Thanksgiving day I was not feeling very thankful. I was short-sighted. All I could see and feel was what I was going through at that moment and at that moment I was in extreme pain. I couldn't walk or stand or sit or lay down without experiencing pain in my leg and pelvis. I felt naseous and sick and was tired of throwing up. I was miserable and did not have a very thankful heart.
Today I feel so blessed and so full. Yes, things have gotten better with my pelvis and my nausea, but that is not why I am beyond thankful. Yes, hindsight is 20/20 but that is not why I am feeling so humbled. I am thankful because of what God has shown me in the last three weeks, what He has taught me through my family, friends, and community.
You see I am a planner and a doer. I don't like to admit when I need help or if I can't do something myself. I am independent. I am strong. I am self-sufficient. I can do it all. But then you find yourself pregnant, nauseous, vomitting, and not able to walk. I was broken. And in that moment, I had people pour themselves in my family and myself in ways that I can't even start to describe. At first, I wasn't willing to take any help. Yes, I was incapable, but that didn't mean Jimmy was incapable. My initial response was, "we're fine, we can handle it." But then I saw the momentus task that stood before Jimmy--he had to be the head, the body, the arms, the legs, the heart, the mind for both me and EV. And I started to see him slowly starting to wear down. So finally, I said, "yes," hesitantly at first then desparately then gratefully.
We had people come and bring us meals (and still bringing us meals), watch EV and take EV to the park or the ballet, come keep me company when I felt like I was going stir crazy, bring us treats, take me to target to buy Christmas gifts for EV, buy groceries for us, send us text messages and emails of encouragement, pray for us. We had people not just ask us if we're okay, but provided for us. And through it all I was humbled and reminded of the love of Jesus. There is no way we can repay everyone because what they did for us is priceless. It's beyond a thank you card. And although we can't put a monetary value to what they did for us, we want to say thank you from the very bottom of our hearts. We are so blessed and so loved and so grateful. We love you!
Today I feel so blessed and so full. Yes, things have gotten better with my pelvis and my nausea, but that is not why I am beyond thankful. Yes, hindsight is 20/20 but that is not why I am feeling so humbled. I am thankful because of what God has shown me in the last three weeks, what He has taught me through my family, friends, and community.
You see I am a planner and a doer. I don't like to admit when I need help or if I can't do something myself. I am independent. I am strong. I am self-sufficient. I can do it all. But then you find yourself pregnant, nauseous, vomitting, and not able to walk. I was broken. And in that moment, I had people pour themselves in my family and myself in ways that I can't even start to describe. At first, I wasn't willing to take any help. Yes, I was incapable, but that didn't mean Jimmy was incapable. My initial response was, "we're fine, we can handle it." But then I saw the momentus task that stood before Jimmy--he had to be the head, the body, the arms, the legs, the heart, the mind for both me and EV. And I started to see him slowly starting to wear down. So finally, I said, "yes," hesitantly at first then desparately then gratefully.
We had people come and bring us meals (and still bringing us meals), watch EV and take EV to the park or the ballet, come keep me company when I felt like I was going stir crazy, bring us treats, take me to target to buy Christmas gifts for EV, buy groceries for us, send us text messages and emails of encouragement, pray for us. We had people not just ask us if we're okay, but provided for us. And through it all I was humbled and reminded of the love of Jesus. There is no way we can repay everyone because what they did for us is priceless. It's beyond a thank you card. And although we can't put a monetary value to what they did for us, we want to say thank you from the very bottom of our hearts. We are so blessed and so loved and so grateful. We love you!
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Furlough baby...literally
It took two and a half years of trying, a miscarriage, two 6cm cysts growing at the same time, chronic pelvic pain, and the government shutting down to get pregnant with baby number two. So, at the time we got furloughed I was unhappy about it, but now I am so grateful for that time of rest because apparently that is what I needed to get pregnant. It's such a God story. No matter how much we tried and tried on our own it was fruitless but the moment everything was out of our control and we just gave it up to Him, He shows up. We never know at the time what God's plans are but to trust that they are good and that He has a purpose for us. So, we have nicknamed this baby "Furly."
At 5 weeks, I do not feel anything like I did with EV. With EV, I was sick from even before I had a positive pregnancy test. The thought of food made me cringe and I did not have an appetite for anything. With this one, all I can think about is food. I'm not necessarily "hungry" but I have strong cravings for anything good. I dream about having a full refrigerator filled with anything I want to eat. I have a little nausea here and there but nothing horrible. I am tired all the time and by the end of the day can barely keep my eyes open. When they say that no two pregnancies are alike, it's so true. You would think that because you've been pregnant once that you would know what your body would be like the second time around, but I feel like everything is new again, different, unknown.
Today, I am officially 9 weeks. Last week we had the privilege of seeing our baby on an ultrasound. We saw the heartbeat and the little one surrounded by a nice protective sac. We also found out that there's a new test that looks for chromosomal anomalies and that can tell you the gender of your baby at 10 weeks!! My has technology really progressed even in the short time between EV and this one. The last few weeks have been tough, between the nausea, throwing up, and fatigue, I am amazed that I even make it to work much less make it through the day doing work. However, if I threw up 10 times a day with EV, I'm only throwing up 2-3 times a day with this one. So, in the bigger picture, I guess this one is "easier." The thing that makes it hard with this one is even with the nausea and throwing up, I'm hungry. At least with EV, I just didn't have an appetite and I was okay with not eating because it just made me sick. With this one, even though food makes me sick, I still want it.
We also told EV this past week. I've been having a lot of momma guilt for not being able to spend time with her and being literally glued to my bed or couch. So, we told her and I think she's excited. I say I think because she didn't jump up and down and react the way she would if we told her she could have ice cream after dinner, but she did proceed to tell all her friends at church the next day and she asks a lot of questions about the baby. Maybe more than being excited, she's processing, cause she's like me, she's an analytical thinker, she's trying to understand what this means for our family and more importantly what this means for her. So far she's come to the conclusion that she will help rock the baby, change the baby's diaper, and share her toys with the baby. She's also come to the conclusion that she wants a baby sister...
I will be 12 weeks tomorrow and I just made it Facebook official. I have made so much progress in the last two weeks. I woke up two weeks ago and couldn't walk. I had extreme pain in my leg and pelvis. Now, I can bear some weight on the leg and I even take a few steps without crutches. My nausea has gotten a little better (I'm not sick and throwing up everyday). Things are definitely starting to look a little brighter.
At 5 weeks, I do not feel anything like I did with EV. With EV, I was sick from even before I had a positive pregnancy test. The thought of food made me cringe and I did not have an appetite for anything. With this one, all I can think about is food. I'm not necessarily "hungry" but I have strong cravings for anything good. I dream about having a full refrigerator filled with anything I want to eat. I have a little nausea here and there but nothing horrible. I am tired all the time and by the end of the day can barely keep my eyes open. When they say that no two pregnancies are alike, it's so true. You would think that because you've been pregnant once that you would know what your body would be like the second time around, but I feel like everything is new again, different, unknown.
Today, I am officially 9 weeks. Last week we had the privilege of seeing our baby on an ultrasound. We saw the heartbeat and the little one surrounded by a nice protective sac. We also found out that there's a new test that looks for chromosomal anomalies and that can tell you the gender of your baby at 10 weeks!! My has technology really progressed even in the short time between EV and this one. The last few weeks have been tough, between the nausea, throwing up, and fatigue, I am amazed that I even make it to work much less make it through the day doing work. However, if I threw up 10 times a day with EV, I'm only throwing up 2-3 times a day with this one. So, in the bigger picture, I guess this one is "easier." The thing that makes it hard with this one is even with the nausea and throwing up, I'm hungry. At least with EV, I just didn't have an appetite and I was okay with not eating because it just made me sick. With this one, even though food makes me sick, I still want it.
We also told EV this past week. I've been having a lot of momma guilt for not being able to spend time with her and being literally glued to my bed or couch. So, we told her and I think she's excited. I say I think because she didn't jump up and down and react the way she would if we told her she could have ice cream after dinner, but she did proceed to tell all her friends at church the next day and she asks a lot of questions about the baby. Maybe more than being excited, she's processing, cause she's like me, she's an analytical thinker, she's trying to understand what this means for our family and more importantly what this means for her. So far she's come to the conclusion that she will help rock the baby, change the baby's diaper, and share her toys with the baby. She's also come to the conclusion that she wants a baby sister...
I will be 12 weeks tomorrow and I just made it Facebook official. I have made so much progress in the last two weeks. I woke up two weeks ago and couldn't walk. I had extreme pain in my leg and pelvis. Now, I can bear some weight on the leg and I even take a few steps without crutches. My nausea has gotten a little better (I'm not sick and throwing up everyday). Things are definitely starting to look a little brighter.
Friday, October 4, 2013
Oregon Trail
One thing I love about EV is how she loves to explore new places and do new things. She has especially developed a love for traveling. Earlier last month we went to the west coast for a friend's wedding and EV absolutely loved it. It was so much fun seeing things through her eyes and hearing her articulate her thoughts and feelings. If you've never been to the west coast, it's absolutely breathtaking and thanks to EV I think we were able to appreciate it even more.
EV would exclaim, "Mommy, look at all that snow!!" and as I look at the window confused about what she is referring to, I smile as I see clouds covering the ocean and mountains. I tell her, "EV that isn't snow, those are clouds." And she exclaims, "Clouds?!? On the ground?!?"
Or another time when she looks outside and exclaims, "Mommy, look at all those stars!! Which one is the Evangeline star?" And I look up and am taken aback by how the sky is covered in stars. How did I not notice all those stars before? I then respond, "The Evangeline star is the biggest and the brightest" and then we proceed to try to find the biggest and the brightest in the midst of all the stars.
I loved how she was so content just playing in the sand and would say, "Mommy, I could do this all day!"
EV would exclaim, "Mommy, look at all that snow!!" and as I look at the window confused about what she is referring to, I smile as I see clouds covering the ocean and mountains. I tell her, "EV that isn't snow, those are clouds." And she exclaims, "Clouds?!? On the ground?!?"
Or another time when she looks outside and exclaims, "Mommy, look at all those stars!! Which one is the Evangeline star?" And I look up and am taken aback by how the sky is covered in stars. How did I not notice all those stars before? I then respond, "The Evangeline star is the biggest and the brightest" and then we proceed to try to find the biggest and the brightest in the midst of all the stars.
I loved how she was so content just playing in the sand and would say, "Mommy, I could do this all day!"
We also met a new friend on this trip. They were two peas in a pod. It was so great to have another little girl at the wedding. EV loves new places and new faces. It was a perfect ending to a perfect trip. It was a beautiful wedding with great friends against a breathtaking backdrop. Thank you David and Hannah for letting us be a part of you special day. We love you!!
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