"Shin Young, you are going to have the majority of your life to be an adult, where you will be responsible for not only yourself but for those around you. Growing up doesn't mean living your life, but in many ways it means losing your freedom. Don't get me wrong, being a grown up definitely has its perks, like not having a curfew or making your own choices. But even when you can sleep whenever you want, you find yourself sleeping early cause you have to wake up early to go to work and get your family ready for the day. And even though you can make your own choices, you are always weighing all the consequences and sometimes those choices feel heavy and hard. Shin Young, I want you to enjoy your childhood and your youth. I want you to take chances, seek adventure, and pursue your dreams. Adulthood, responsibility, independence will be there when you're ready for it so take your time getting there. It's okay to make mistakes, learn from them, and to become stronger as a result. We will always be here for you, supporting you, loving you, and helping you along the way. We love you!"
So, whenever EV says she can't wait to grow-up, those are the words I am going to say to her.
The last 4 years has been such an amazing blessing. Evangeline, you light up our world. You are one of the funniest, sweetest, most stubborn, smartest, fun-loving, precocious little girl I know. You challenge me everyday and remind me of God's love and grace. I am so thankful for who you are and the little girl you are becoming. I always thought you were just a strong-willed and stubborn toddler that only wanted things your way, but these days you have been showing yourself to be sensitive, loving, and compassionate. I look forward to seeing how you grow and mature, especially as you become an older sister. Words cannot describe how much we love you and how much we cherish every moment we get with you. No, no, no, no, no, I LOVE YOU!!!
