Take your time

How do you teach a 3.5 year old to slow down and take your time?  EV loves "working" in her workbooks.  We work on numbers, letters, spelling, and writing.  One of the workbooks we have is a connect the dots exercise.  Most of the time she just goes from one dot to the next without looking and then realizes that she wasn't going in the right order then gets frustrated because the picture is not right anymore and then doesn't want to do it.  I am always saying to her, "Slow down EV" and "Take your time."  Similarly when we are practicing writing, she's always rushing and then getting frustrated. She starts off so excited but then ends up just upset.  

I see so much of myself in her. She wants to do everything herself, in her mind she can do it perfectly, and she lacks the patience to actually learn the proper way.  Instead she takes over, tries, fails, gets frustrated and then doesn't want to deal with it again.  Evangeline, take your time sweetheart. Time will pass us by so quickly. Stop trying to grow up so fast. Lets enjoy every moment we have, be thankful to The Lord for our blessings, and make memories to last a lifetime.  Mistakes will be made, no one is perfect, and we love you regardless. 

Although Sometimes her wanting to do everything herself comes in handy!! 

Preschool

So, last week was EV's last week of school before she officially starts the preschool program at Mount Pisgah.  Although they have a curriculum and often call the toddler ages preschool, the 3 and 4 year old classes are considered the actual preschool program.  Transition and change is always so hard for EV.  Last year when she moved up to her current class, it took her about a month to really start participating in class.  We were told by the teachers that EV would just stand in the back and watch everyone but wouldn't actively participate.  They questioned her ability to understand and follow instructions, once she started trusting them and opened up, they realized it wasn't because she didn't understand, it was because she didn't want to participate.  EV's come a long way and she now loves her teachers, so it's going to be really hard for her to let those teachers go and come to trust her new teachers.

I on the other hand am really excited for the new year.  I love change and new things.  I am also excited to see all the new challenges and things EV will be able to learn this year.  I have mentioned previously that I haven't felt that EV's been challenged enough at school and we explored some other options.  We decided to stick with Mt. Pisgah because we felt that with EV's personality, a warm and loving envirnment was better for her than a more academic environment at this point in time.  But I do want her to be challenged and stretched too.  So, I'm hoping that this new class can provide some of that for her.

Strangely, when it comes to school things I tend to be really forgetful and neglectful.  Everything else I'm obsessive compulsive about but I forget almost everything school related.  I'm always making Jimmy run to the store to buy food coloring or valentine day cards or drinks on the day they are due at school.  But one thing I wanted to do for the teachers was a nice thank you gift.  I wanted something thoughtful but nothing extravagent.  So when I came across this Pinterest pin it got me super excited.  It was so easy to do, it came out looking beautiful, it was affordable, and it's something they can keep for a really long time.  It was perfect!!

Yesterday morning EV woke up saying she wasn't feeling well.  Then she proceeded to say, "I feel, I feel......nervous."  All the way to school she was talking about her old teacher saying how she would tie her hair and the things she would do for her.  Apparently when she got to school she didnt want to participate because "she was still waking up."  But when I went to go pick her up her teacher said she eventually warmed up and did really well.  So proud of her for overcoming her anxiety and for stepping out of her comfort zone!

I can't believe in two years she will be going to Kindergarten.  She already is such a great helper and communicator.  I can't imagine how much more she will grow and develop in just two short years.

Museums, zoos, and pirates

Last week we went up to Maryland to visit Jimmy's family.  We decided to drive this time and  instead of doing it through the night we thought we would take our time, make multiple stops, and make a day of it.  I was so proud of EV because not only did she do great on the drive up and down (I'm sure being able to watch DVDs for the first time helped a lot with passing the time) but she was so well-behaved on this trip.  I think I've said this before but I feel like anytime we go on a trip EV grows and matures leaps and bounds. 

The week before this trip, EV had learned about outerspace and planets so one of the first places she wanted to go was the Air and Space Museum.  She pointed out that the last time we went there we made her take a nap and that she wasn't able to see much.  Unfortunately, our camera was out of batteries but take my word she loved it.  Afterwards she was ready to see another museum.  Museum, museum, museum was the word of the week.

We also made it to the National Zoo.  Although it was her third time to that zoo, there were many new things and things we didn't see before.  We started early and thank goodness cause it got way too hot to do anything in the afternoon.  My favorite comment that day was when I said, "Ohhh EV, look at those crocodiles!!" and EV responded, "Yeah mommy!!  And look at all that sand!!!"  Hahahaha. 

One day we went to Annapolis and did a pirate adventure on a ship.  EV's reaction was not what I was hoping for--she was scared.  I thought she would enjoy dressing up, getting fake tattoos, pretending to be a pirate, and running around on a ship with a bunch of other kids.  But no, she was a little freaked out and didn't want to participate (until they found the treasure chest and gave out treasures).  It didn't help that it was scorching hot.  I think towards the end she enjoyed it a little at least the shooting the "bad guy" with water, finding the treasure chest, and being on a boat parts.  At least we got to be out on the water and had some seafood for lunch.

We can't forget the Maryland blue crabs.  EV LOVED the crabs.  She inhaled it faster than we can dig it out and put it on her plate.  And last but not least spending time with family.  EV is so endearing and loves being with family.  It doesn't matter if she only sees them once or twice a year.  When she doesn't see them, she talks constantly about them and remembers the smallest details.  She especially loves her uncle Tom.  It's always good to see family--we miss you all and love you all very much.  Hope to see you again very soon!

Memorial Day Weekend

Last year we planned to go to Puerto Rico with my parents and sister/brother-in-law, but once we started our renovations, we knew that we would have to tone down our trip.  So, we decided to keep it low key and go to our timeshare.  EV is always saying, I like doing things as a family, so that is exactly what we did.  We filled our weekend with mountain adventures from Friday morning to Monday afternoon. We tried to balance activities, rest, and cost.  So, we went out in the mornings, packed a lunch, came back for a nap, and did "free" activities at the resort.  So, here's a brief overview of our itinerary

Friday: Outlet shopping, swimming pool, mini golf
Saturday: Dillard House for breakfast, Tallulah Gorge for hiking, nap, swimming pool, mini golf
Sunday:  Horseback riding/petting farm/fishing at Sunburst Stables, nap, swimming pool, park
Monday:  Strawberry picking at Mercier Orchards, dinner with rest of the family

EV loves being out and about, trying new things, annd making new dicoveries.  So, to put it simply, EV had a blast.  Coming back Monday and waking up early Tues was hard for all of us.  Getting back into a routine was even harder.  These pictures pretty much sum up our trip.